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In and off by it self, it’s not very strange that we don’t always agree on things. Our understanding and attitude differ and our appreciation of people and causes varies greatly. Still, most of us would agree on that unnecessary feuding and arguing form a kind of communication that is both tiresome and negative.
Any number of circumstances and actions can encourage disagreement and fighting between people. If we want to enhance good and solid relations we must promote tolerance and compromise towards each other rather than judgementalism and conflicts. We also have to try to listen to others and carefully ponder their views, especially if we want to avoid unnecessary confrontations and conflicts.
Fights and feuding are annoying and prevent comfortable and pleasurable communication. A little debating never did any harm but vicious and disrespectful arguing weakens the power of humane and gentle relations and is therefore not a good choice. We shouldn’t squabble and disagree for no good reason because is has a negative affect on those who are involved.
We should try to avoid disputes and struggles. When we are in a situation that requires debating about people and causes we should try to increase our human interest and affection. Those of us, who really love peaceful communication, try to respond in a positive way to things that we consider unexciting and of little worth. We are honest and we try to have a constructive discussion about our disagreements instead of squabbling about them and thereby soliciting a lack of unity and troubles. We want nothing more than to create a base for communication with others that is just and fair. We resent injustice and feuding. If a conflict occurs we try to reach a wise conclusion and an acceptable agreement by positive and intellectual discussion.
It’s not difficult to be unfair and reckless towards that which is not exactly to our liking. But indulging in that kind of behaviour invites trouble and struggles to our doorsteps. We must be careful and alert towards anything that might upset and agitate others against us.
Those of us who are peace loving and perceptive to the important issues in life, besides being amicable and compromising, seldom have long lasting uproars with others around us. We reject all kinds of unnecessary conflicts and fighting but instead promote the importance of brotherly discussions. We choose to debate without having to resort to arguing and bickering.
Heated and violent arguing is both negative and pessimistic. It’s very important to resolve those matters, which will lead us down the wrong path. We have to be alert towards unjust fighting and try to eliminate them rather than enhancing. We must reject useless arguing and debating but promote communication that are full of peace and positivism and free of fighting.
Written by: Jóna Rúna Kvaran; 
Translated by: Nína Rúna Kvaran; 
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